How to Get a Womans Phone Number and Email Address

For a lot of men, asking a lady whom he barely met for her phone number can be a scary thing.  If not done well, it leaves them prone to painful rejections.  But some men have come up with smooth moves so not only they could ask for a woman’s phone number, but also for her email address.

Why the email address not the phone number? Women find email "less personal" compared to their phone number, which they have a more personal connection. 

So what is the secret?  Here’s how it breaks down.

Break the ice
It starts with ice breakers that sound or appear natural to you.  If you spot a lady at a club or at the party buy her a drink; if she walks around the park with her pet dog, tell her she has a cute dog then admire how she takes care of pets, discuss the weather etc. If you fancy girl doing jogging you can mention some wonderful jogging routes. Anything which seems to be natural for the situation. Once you have connected and talking, you can introduce your name and offer your hand for a friendly handshake.

Ask just as you leave
After talking to her for a good three to four minutes time to say "It was nice talking to you."  Just a second after the two of you part ways, turn back and ask her, "Hey! Do you have email?"

Have her write it

If she says yes, ask her if she could write it for you.  Then, while she is writing her email address for you, say "Write your number there too."  Since she has already provided you her email, she would not take a second guess about giving you another piece of her personal information.  Remember that you are asking if she “has” email, not if she could “give” you her email.  It is less threatening that way.

Carry a pen with you
Of course, it is a bit difficult to do once you go to the sauna…but be prepared. It just looks nice when you can give her a hand with your pen.  You also need to be choosy about the kind of pen you offer to her.  (Chrome pens look better!).