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How can you make a woman feel safe when you’re talking to her for the first time?


We all know the power of first impression…If you want to approach the woman you like it is now or never situation! And it happens that you destroy all the chances you have had, before you started conversation, simply by wrong way of communicating with her…

How can you make a woman feel safe when you’re talking to her for the first time?
Here are a few ideas:
- Be introduced by a third party
- Dress and groom yourself well
- Be VERY good at something so that you have SOME social proof
- Have strong, confident body language
- Have good eye contact
- Be congruent with your actions
- Avoid sensitive topics
- Talk about things she’d enjoy talking about
- Let her see you interact with other women
- Be the life of the party (once again, social proof)
- Don’t have any “strange” body language or behavior
- Approach a woman when she’s in a group first

 

Jolanta Rudzka-Gowda (MA in Social Science) is a therapist with a wide range of knowledge about human relationships.
She has explored the fields of psychology, psychotherapy and coaching. She has got a Diploma in Advanced Hypnotherapy and during her work she uses the following techniques for accessing subconscious mind: hypnosis, regression and NLP.
For more information about Jolanta please visit the website www.hypnosisinthecity.co.uk.
The areas she can help with are: subconscious mind and its impact on our life, influencing other people through our behavior, body language, non-verbal (unconscious messages) we send out to others, self worth and confidence in relationships, independence, problems with relationships, personal development.